Mysecretdate.nl

Flirty, but credits vanish

Fun chats, spicy vibes, and yes, the meter spins fast. Worth it for a wild Friday, just keep an eye on your balance, champ.

Fun but costs add up

The site is easy to use and messages come in steady. Some profiles felt real, some not. Credit model can get pricey if you are not selective. Still had a few good convos.

Quick sign up, busy chat

Registration was two minutes and I was browsing right away. Inbox filled quickly. Navigation is basic but works. Credits go fast, so pace yourself.

Private by design

Sign up was simple with clear consent boxes. I used age and distance filters easily. One photo upload failed, but retry worked. The discreet mode and block/report tools felt reassuring. Messaging limits on the free tier push upgrades, yet the experience felt safe and respectful.

Safe space vibes

Features like block and report made me feel protected. Messaging is straightforward. Fewer profiles off-hours, but quality interactions.

Discreet and straightforward

Registration was quick and the Dutch interface felt natural. Filters helped a lot. I liked the visibility controls. Messaging is basic but safe and easy to follow.

Responsive local support

I asked about iDEAL payment status after a page refresh. Support replied in Dutch within 15 minutes and confirmed the booking cleanly.

Calm, private experience

The safety tools made me feel at ease. A few profiles seemed sparse, but discretion matters more to me.

Comfortable and low pressure

Felt safe using the privacy controls and reporting options. Matching isn’t magic, but the experience is respectful and clear about expectations.

Kind and prompt support

They responded the same afternoon, explained visibility settings clearly, and followed up to confirm it worked. Felt heard and respected.

Respectful and reassuring

I felt safe using the report and block tools. Profile verification could be faster, but I appreciated the emphasis on discretion.

Private feels actually private

Signup was simple with solid privacy controls. I loved the photo blur toggle and nickname option. Messaging felt safe and easy, and the app layout is clean once you learn the filters.

Support respected privacy

Asked about email notifications. They replied next morning with clear steps and no canned fluff. Worked exactly as described.

Privacy tools that help

Signup was quick and I liked the photo blur by default. Controls for who sees me are clear. Messaging limits keep it calm. Learning curve is mild.

Discreet, moderated, slightly slow

Built my profile with a nickname, set visibility to invite-only, and started browsing nearby. Moderation kept things tidy, though one photo approval took hours. Support answered politely. What stood out: privacy controls that actually work without making the site feel cold.

The platform looks clean and registration was quick.

The platform looks clean and registration was quick. I was able to start conversations easily and the user interface is decent. But I kept hitting paywalls for “credits” and real dates didn’t happen yet – so mixed feelings.

After just two days I realised many profiles were obviously fake.

After just two days I realised many profiles were obviously fake. The messages were repetitive, the girls always asked for payments and no real contact followed. It felt like a trap to spend money rather than meet someone.

As someone new to online dating

As someone new to online dating, I found MySecretDate.nl to be user-friendly and engaging. The platform offers a variety of profiles, making it easy to connect with like-minded individuals. While some features require credits, I appreciate the straightforward approach to communication. It's been a positive experience overall.

Nice site with many active users.

Nice site with many active users. The interface is user-friendly, and registration was quick. I've already had some interesting conversations!

I signed up and got flooded with messages

I signed up and got flooded with messages, but nothing real. It feels like a fake chat system to make you buy credits. No actual meetings possible. Totally deceptive.

Verdienmodel is zoveel berichtjes laten sturen

Ben 3 dagen lid, en al 100 euro kwijt aan berichtjes sturen! De dames dates vragen de stomste dingen aan jou zodat jezelf een reactie gaat geven, terwijl jezelf niks bijzonders over de dame weet. Gaat niet om persoonlijk contact maar om zoveel mogelijk chatten en berichtjes laten sturen 💰 De site ziet er wel keurig uit, maar het blijft wel zwendel oplichting, dus heb jezelf hiervoor veel geld voor over, dan succes 🍀

About a year and a half ago I signed up on Mysecretdate.

About a year and a half ago I signed up on Mysecretdate. The first contact I had was with a woman a bit older than me, we were both married and planned to go out for a meal. She ended up canceling because she didn’t feel ready. After that the chat didn’t go very smooth and at some point she deleted her profile, I couldn’t find her again on the site. Soon after I started talking to another woman, and we found out quickly we were looking for the same thing. We agreed to meet at a place near me since she didn’t want to meet near her home. I was thinking she might cancel too, but she didn’t. The date went well and after that things got more exciting between us. Now half a year later we still talk a lot and spend fun time together. So for me this site is defintely worth trying.

When I first visited the site, I quickly got some fake

When I first visited the site, I quickly got some fake profiles messaging me, so I thought it was just another fake site. After some time, just for fun, I sent a message to a lady. After 4 weeks we went out, had a nice time, and now she’s my girlfriend. So it’s not really full of fake profiles, you just have to find the right one.

Leuke match in mijn buurt

Toen ik het buurtfilter zette en meteen een spontane koffieafspraak kreeg, voelde ik vlinders en adrenaline. Credits waard; gesprek klikte. Tip: notificaties even uitzetten tijdens werk.

Snel flirten, duur chatten

Registreren was echt 2 minuten, profielfoto erin en meteen berichtjes. Navigeren simpel, filters oké. Tijdens het ontdekken viel op: credits vliegen hard zodra je foto’s wil openen en sommige profielen ogen stil. Leuk voor speels chatten, wel opletten met kosten.

Lekker vlot, snel credits op

Aanmelden ging rap en mijn inbox liep snel vol. Chatten werkt met credits en dat tikt door. Navigatie is eenvoudig en betalen met iDEAL was zo gedaan. Ik twijfel bij enkele profielen of ze actief zijn. Support hielp wel bij een foutief geopende chat.

Leuke chat, duur grapje

Ik opende een privéfoto en hop, daar gingen de credits. De banter was leuk en een beetje spannend, maar mijn saldo smolt. Lol gehad, portemonnee mopperde.

Na drie dagen lidmaatschap al 100 euro

Na drie dagen lidmaatschap al 100 euro kwijt aan berichtjes. Het lijkt meer om geld te draaien dan om echte dates.

Leuke site, maar veel nepprofielen.

Leuke site, maar veel nepprofielen. Na betaling krijg je vaak automatische reacties. Niet wat ik verwachtte.

Na registratie kreeg ik snel berichten van dames

Na registratie kreeg ik snel berichten van dames, maar zodra ik wilde reageren, moest ik betalen. Dit voelde niet eerlijk. Ik heb mijn account snel verwijderd.